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Charlie- this was so beautiful told. I keep our tree up forever because well as you can imagine, I keep just doing other things... is middle of January acceptable lol.

Anyways- what a beautiful story.

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I can definitely imagine a Christmas tree still up in your house in February haha.

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Charlie - you turned you getting the blues into making me smile. Thank you 😁. This was a perfect reflection: “I stepped closer to the tree, wondering how it could have such a hold over me.”

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Aw thank you, James. Those dang Christmas blues.

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I also really love Christmas (the lights, the wrapping, the decorations, all of it). This year I took down everything except our twinkling snowflake lights. I reasoned that there’s snow outside so the lights can stay through winter

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Oh I know you do, Brooke. I read your post about wrapping anything framed on your wall in wrapping paper! Do you also get really sad afterwards??

Totally with you on the snowflake lights. I think I need a whole set of post-Christmas snow-themed decorations to get me through January.

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I don’t get sad. I look at it as more of a clean slate/fresh start to the new year, but I totally understand where you’re coming from. My decorations are mostly snowmen so that I have the option to leave them up through winter. Sometimes I do that, but lately I’ve been taking them all down shortly after Christmas

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The idea of a clean slate and a clean house definitely helped me through the sadness this year, much quicker than it has in the past. Hopefully I can keep moving in that direction!

I have a huge adorable snowman on my front door, that replaces the Christmas wreath, and three little guys by my stairs. They make me happy in a different way. :)

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The image of you and George both crying over Christmas being over and then experiencing those feelings pass... What a powerful moment.

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Aww thank you, Becky.

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Why don’t you keep decorations up until January 7th?

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Decorations become immediately depressing as soon as Christmas is over. The longer they stay up, the sadder they make me!

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