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Dec 13, 2022Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Charlie, we are facing the same right now with our 10 y/o. Today, we will kick off a writing assignment focused on "getting to the truth about Santa". Note: we homeschool our kids, and something we are currently trying on for size is understanding that the best way to solve a problem is "writing" about it. I don't know how things will turn out, but we're going to give it a shot. BTW: she believes in Santa, but recently started asking questions and testing out whether it's true or not. We think WRITING will help her analyze things more closely. :-)

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Love this, Brad! Such a great idea to write about it. Curious to know how it works out!

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So many people have stories of when they discovered Santa wasn’t real. It’s really traumatic for some people.

I have zero memory of it. Was I 8? 11? Absolutely no idea.

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Fascinating... I wonder what it was like for your siblings?

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are you a humans of ny fan? either way read this entire story (its 15 parts), i think there's a lot here that might help or at least make u cry https://www.instagram.com/p/CmEibN_ujLy/?hl=en

my wife and i read through it yesterday and cried like small babies

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Oh man, I'm not on Instagram so I can't read all of them! I read the first one and can't wait to see the rest...

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heck ya! I am fairly sure u can read all of em from here https://www.instagram.com/humansofny/?hl=en

each one is its own post

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Grew in the part of the world where we were never told Santa was real 🥹 I love the way you frame what he represents and we can believe in that!

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Wow, Christin! How did you feel about Santa, then?

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a man paid to be at a mall to dress up and take photos with

AND a SHAMAN

please please watch this video

https://vimeo.com/248496167

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It’s always different as an older sibling, a huge responsibility to keep Santa sacred until the little ones find out for themselves!

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I bet, Kelly! Such a wonderful responsibility, too.

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