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Jan 2Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Two thoughts on Christmas tree logistics: my wife and I used to have a small fake tree, leave it up until April, and then put it in a closet with all the decorations still on. Now we buy small real trees that are potted (instead of cutting a small Charlie Brown tree, you dig up the roots and re-plant it). After Christmas you can un-decorate it, plant it in your yard, and they'll grow between 4-40 feet tall and outlive you. Christmas lives forever!

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This is magical!

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Jan 2Liked by Charlie Bleecker

I've decided that I decide when the Christmas music stops. I still dip into the holiday playlists well into January. It lessens the slope of the offramp just a bit.

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Yea my way is quite abrupt. All Christmas and then No Christmas. Good for you for taking a stand!

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Beautiful essay. But only 4 days?!!! It reminded that in Venezuela, Christmas decorations aren’t taken off until February 2nd!!!

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It was a pretty quick turnaround, but I did have all my decorations up in November.

Why do they wait until February 2?

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Jan 4Liked by Charlie Bleecker

What a great explanatory note about Christmas!It feels like it shouldn’t go,though, we still hope for the new year which is already here.😃 Great get together is super thrilling over here.

Wishing best of the new year to friends and family.Also,a Happy and Prosperous New Year to you,my impressive writer.

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Happy New Year to you too, Olufunmi!

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One year my mom and I left the Christmas tree up til May 😂 (it was fake). We were too lazy to tediously take down and carefully pack every ornament, garland, and string of lights. We turned it on every night, though. I think one day we just got sick of it and took it down. You could try that approach next year?

I also used to get soooo so sad when Christmas was over. So this piece really spoke to me. In college, I started leaving an all white cord/bulb string light somewhere in my place all year long. I also decorate that room to be as cozy as possible, like grandmas house but make it chic. It feels like Christmas without it being Christmas ♥️💚

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I was actually thinking of this... I already leave up a string of white lights in the bathroom, but I need more! Lighting is everything. My goal next year: Make it feel like Christmas without being Christmas.

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Yes! String lights everywhere!!! The Philips hue lights are also fantastic. They have preset color combinations on the app if you put multiple bulbs in one room. There might be a Christmas mode.

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Ah I was hoping you'd give me a recommendation! Yessssss.

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Jan 2Liked by Charlie Bleecker

This resonates hard Charlie. My mom and I always feel so let down after Christmas ends, regardless of how nice it was. Everytime I put away the decorations I just hope I live to take them out of the boxes again (morbid I know)

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Tommy, lol, that IS morbid. I had a feeling we shared similar feelings about the holiday, based on your last post.

I did not feel normal until January 2 and I can't tell you what changed. I think it was, unfortunately, just time.

I've created a note in my phone called "Operation Post-Christmas Blues" and I've already got a long list of ways to improve my experience next year.

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Jan 2Liked by Charlie Bleecker

A perfect ode to the holiday mood roller coaster.

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Thanks, Rick. Happy to be off the roller coaster and on solid ground again.

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Jan 2Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Oh, I feel this. Our house has been pretty glum post-Xmas. Our daughter fell in love with the Ella/Louis Christmas album this year, so that's been on repeat, along with our favorite, the Charlie Brown Christmas album. I miss the music the most. Happy new year to you guys! 🙏

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I love the Vince Guaraldi Trio, as well! I'll have to look into the Ella/Lous album for next year. My favorite song this year was Santa Visits Everyone by Sia.

Happy New Year, Rob!

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