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Jul 16Liked by Charlie Bleecker

One of your most poignant, well-written, and impactful articles yet about the insidious dance of denial and the secret escape door of conscience.

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Thank you, Rick. There was a long string of emails back and forth between me and Amy. A huge argument saved in my Gmail forever lol. It brought me back.

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Agreed!

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Jul 16Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Man, the way this made me feel is like how sometimes my experiences get so cloaked in shame that I feel they don't deserve to even be in my journal because I don't want to acknowledge that it happened because I was so dang embarrassed by it.

I'm glad this story found a home here on Substack, Charlie.

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Lol yes Becky! They don't even deserve to be in my journal! I have definitely felt that. Now that is exactly the stuff I like to share... HAVE to share. Frees me of it!

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We are our own mirrors. Great piece ♥️

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Thank you, Elizabeth!

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Jul 18Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Wow. I want the rest of the story!

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I should have linked to the story about getting fired:

https://charliebleecker.substack.com/p/transparent-tuesdays-93c

It seems that one story often leads into another. Thanks for being here, Pam!

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Your constant courage of sharing your voyage is always inspiring. Thank you.

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Oh, thank you so much, Dakota.

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Jul 17Liked by Charlie Bleecker

Wow, that laid the feelings behind self-denial out there. It just feels like the delusions of being cool and happy are so real. Distracted from reality. Of course, we aren't THAT drunk and annoying.

Yeah.

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Haha totally. Me? Drunk and annoying? Noooo.

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