22 Comments
User's avatar
Matt Tillotson's avatar

Baconbits13. Lol. My favorite detail from this great story.

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

The backstory is so dumb.

Expand full comment
John Nicholas's avatar

So good Charlie! Have you read The Sense of an Ending? Lovely book, similar theme. An old guy was a douche to his friends and tries to figure out where things went wrong. Our memories are really not that solid.

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Never heard of it, John, but that sounds awesome. Just added it to my book list!

Expand full comment
Olufunmi's avatar

Memories remind us of when we were incompetent and immature enough.They make us laugh/cry at times and help us to see,learn and understand how much we’ve developed thereafter.Your storyline makes me laugh 😂 remembering mine too,indeed memories aren’t truth.You’re wonderful!👍👏

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Incompetent and immature, for sure!!

Expand full comment
Michael Dean's avatar

This is getting me seriously tempted to go back into the AIM archives. I think I remember having something called "Dark AIM" which logged your conversations before AIM had that as an official feature, meaning I have some stuff going back to 5th-8th grade, wHeN eVeRyOnE tAlKeD liKe ThIs.

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

omg Michael I'm DYINGGGGG. You HAVE to go through those archives and let me know how it makes you feel to read them lol.

Expand full comment
Sandra Yvonne's avatar

The five periods. Chefs kiss.

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Lolol Sandra! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Expand full comment
Ishan Shanavas's avatar

Dude, you said it. Time changes how you look at your past. Whenever someone asks you to recount an experience, you must say that "terms and conditions apply", with one of those terms being - "memories are subject to change (and in some cases, total alteration) with time" XD

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Haha terms and conditions apply. Love it.

Expand full comment
Orianne Gambino's avatar

As usual, I love reading your newsletter. The Affair is such an interesting show on truth, I always reference it to people going through break up and looking for "the truth". Loved the way you explained it, I may forward this email instead of trying to explain it myself from now on!

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Thank you, Orianne. I love the idea of pointing people to The Affair after a breakup!

Expand full comment
Steven Foster's avatar

Expectations are a hell of a drug.

Well done on this piece Charlie!

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Thanks, Steven!

Expand full comment
Hannah's avatar

So good

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Hannah! Thank you. ♥️

Expand full comment
Chad Smith's avatar

The truth is always in the archives

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

You said it, Chad.

Expand full comment
Grace Capobianco's avatar

“Baconbits13: listen jake whether you meant to or not.....you hurt me” is my new favorite line in any essay, ever. Awesome piece Charlie, thanks for sharing 🤍

Expand full comment
Charlie Bleecker's avatar

Bahaha, Grace! I’m still cringing.

Expand full comment